Dating and Relationship Support

for growth-oriented, curious, life-loving people

I support individuals and couples to create healthier, happier, more nourishing relationships by teaching them unconventional relational skills, awarenesses, and strategies.

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Whether you are single and dating or in a committed partnership already, it’s time to make romance fun again.

It’s courageous to get outside support, try new things, and think in new ways. We give ourselves permission to seek guidance in every other area of life, why not bring that same curiosity and resourcefulness to love and connection?

I can help you.

Before I moved into the world of business consulting and operations management, I ran a successful dating and relationship coaching company.

I’ve helped hundreds of jumpstart and reset the course of their love life — everything from dating differently so that they could call in the partner they truly wanted, to helping people in committed relationships learn new ways to show up so that they could reconnect and co-create something more fulfilling for everyone involved.

A lot of what we’ve been taught about dating and relating is exactly what is getting in our way of having what we truly want.

There is a lot of recycled, well-intended dating and relationship advice out there, but most of it is works against you. Let’s take a second to reset…

Dating…

  • You don’t have to rely on apps to meet people, unless you want to. I teach people to date differently so that they learn about themselves, have fun, and make higher quality connections along the way.

  • You don’t have to pretend you don’t want it because everyone else claims that “once you stop looking for it, it will find you!” This is a misdiagnosis and hamstrings your ability to show up and call in what you really want.

  • Dating culture worldwide is due for an overhaul and the idea that "it should just happen" is not only antiquated but harmful to the psyche of wonderful, single people everywhere.

  • So many remarkable people on the planet are single, not because they are broken, but because "dating culture" is broken. I can help you do it your own way, make it fun again, and drastically increase the likelihood of meeting and matching with someone you can build a life with.

Relationships…

  • Your primary relationships should be nourishing, collaborative, and kind most of the time, not the other way around. It should be you two versus the the problem, not you against one another.

  • The phrase “relationships are hard” is a slippery slope, and often a cop out. It prevents us from getting more creative. Yes, all good relationships require work and effort, but they shouldn’t be the primary source of worry and pain in our life. The effort you put in should deepen trust and intimacy after conflict, not end up in your feeling further apart than ever.

  • It’s instinctual to place blame — on yourself, on your partner, on the demands of life — but if you settle for a culture of blame in your relationship, neither of you gets the growth or deep connection you are both actually craving.

  • If you’re willing to try new things, I can help you repair cracks old and new, and discover the relationship that is more intimate, more trusting, and more fun that is waiting for you on the other side.

It’s okay to want love, and to “work on it”.

This doesn’t mean that other people have cracked some secret code you didn’t get access to. They either lucked into something amazing, or they are actually settling for something less than what they truly want, and can’t admit it to themself.

Healthy, fulfilling partnership is a valid, deeply personal desire written into our spiritual DNA. It is normal for people to crave for it deeply and fully. Life is more fun when shared with people you adore and admire who adore and admire you back. It’s why you long for it!

It’s courageous to admit this to ourselves in a world that pressures us to pretend to care less.

Relationships (especially partnerships) are the ultimate spiritual playground and can have the most rewarding, positive, lifelong impact on your quality of life, and that is worth investing in.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • I work with single people as well as people in committed relationships. I work with monogamous and non-monogamous people. I work with folks who identify as queer, heterosexual, gender-queer, and cisgendered.

    This work is for you if you want to create healthy, equitable, functional relationships and build the skills, awarenesses, and strategies that will help you create relationships that are mutually nourishing, and that benefit everyone involved more honestly.

  • Our first conversation is a free, 30 minute meet-and-greet. We use this time to get to know each other a bit and each assess whether or not we are a good fit to work together.

    For individuals:
    The first session will be 90 min and all following sessions are 60 min, unless otherwise discussed.

    For partners:
    The first session is together and then I meet with each partner one-on-one, and then we meet again altogether.

    Depending on what your situation calls for we determine what combination of individual and combined sessions make the most sense for what you want to cocreate.

    All sessions after the first conversation are $150.

    I will usually give you “homework” to work on between sessions that will help you practice integrating everything you are learning.

  • I ask client to be ready to commit at least 3 months to the work. The first month is usually energized and excited as we dive into new ideas and new strategies. The second month can sometimes feel like a plateau as old patterns, disappointments, and beliefs try to edge back in. The third month is usually when people have been able to bank enough practice and reps to feel like they’ve broken bad habits for good and are creating reliable, consistent new outcomes individually and together.

    I also have many clients extend working together anywhere from a total of 6 months to 12 months. Every person and couple is different, and the length of support you want will be determined by what you are working on, your budget, your energy, and everything else going on in your life concurrently.

  • If you struggle to take accountability for your own contributions to patterns, or are hoping that I will help you “change your partner” then think carefully before investing in this work.

    Blame is a natural and common human instinct, but it is an unproductive one. If you are stuck and wanting to break a stubborn cycle, and are ready to do the massively courageous, often uncomfortable work of self-examination and experimentation, then I can help you. But if you are looking for an ally to help you make someone else wrong, then I am not the support resource for you.

  • All sessions after our first meet-and-greet conversation are $150.

    Payment to be remitted before the start of session.

    Note: I will be increasing my session rate to $175 for new clients starting in January 2027.

  • Yes!

    While I no longer coach full time, I work with a handful of clients each year to help them create what they want in dating and relationships.

What to Expect

  • Map out a unique-to-you approach to dating that is intentional, nourishing, and (most importantly) FUN!

  • Back-pocket strategies that help you stay aligned and show up effectively so that you can create what you truly want in your connections — romantic and beyond.

  • Cultivate new mindsets so that you get to be energized, grounded, and authentic throughout your dating and relating journey.

  • Identify blindspots that are getting in your way of co-creating what you truly want in your relationships.

  • Support to heal and move beyond old patterns that are no longer serving you or making you feel downtrodden or stuck.

  • Replace ambiguity and frustration, with clarity and excitement, so that you can show up to connecting as you raddest, truest, best self.

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